Posted by: patriciamar | December 9, 2012

Anne Lamott inspires at St. Mark’s

Image by: courtesy Riverhead Books

Celebrated author Anne Lamott spoke on Friday night as the third and final speaker in the Fall 2012 Moon Lecture Series at St. Mark’s United Methodist Church. Lamott spoke on her newest book, “Help, Thanks, Wow,” and becoming a Christian in her 30s, something she really, really didn’t want to do, she explained.

The best-selling author, professor, lecturer, political activist, mother and grandmother has devoted her life to sharing her knowledge. For years, Lamott has taught writing courses, given lectures and travelled around the country simply trying to help others live their lives more happily and peacefully.

For nearly an hour Lamott cracked jokes about bantering denominations, growing up with atheist parents, perfectionism, drug addiction, weight and her current health problem – A.G.E. syndrome – as she said her doctor calls it. Her advice spanned nearly the broadest spectrum possible. She advised on how to stop worrying about what your butt looks like, she shared her experience working with deadlines, and during the Q&A she answered pleas from parents worried about the future of their entirely non-religious children.

As a writer, Lamott commended deadlines and simply writing whether you feel like it or not.

“I do really well with deadlines and structure,” Lamott said.

She considers the idea of waiting for inspiration, “just a way to get out of a day’s work.”

Somewhat ironically, there were many in the crowd at St. Mark’s who seemed to be there for just that – inspiration. Visitors listened and laughed with adoring eyes as they heard about one woman’s ongoing journey with life and what she says is her, and possibly everyone’s, biggest challenge – the mind. She talked extensively about knowing when to get help, calling a friend or family member to chat over a cup of tea, for example.

Lamott continued the lecture by reading aloud from her newest work of non-fiction.

“Thank you for my sobriety, my grandson, and my flowering pear tree,” she read from the first chapter of “Help, Thanks, Wow,” an honest and informal book on how she prays.

One of her last points of the evening was a familiar reminder to appreciate every day.

“The tangled web of the mind,” she says, is something that everyone deals with.

Friends, family, the outdoors and walking her dogs are all things that she chooses over getting caught up in fear, jealousy and worry.

The Moon Lecture Series is endowed by Rev. Bob Moon and Dorrie Moon. Visit the St. Mark’s website to stay up-to-date on future lectures, concerts and events.

Originally published at http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/76869/Anne_Lamott_inspires_at_St_Marks on December 8, 2012.

Posted by: patriciamar | December 7, 2012

Danú opens the holiday season for the Mondavi Center

On Wednesday the holiday season officially began at the UC Davis Mondavi Center for the Performing Arts. “An Nollaig in Éirinn,” or “Christmas in Ireland,” was the theme for the evening of entertainment by award-winning Irish ensemble, Danú. The performance was all about sharing Irish Christmas traditions – both those that include music and those that don’t.

Christmas in Ireland must be a whole lot of fun. The six-member group shared the stage throughout the night, each taking the mic on different occasions to introduce a song, story or joke to educate and amuse the Jackson Hall audience.

Lead vocalist Muireann Nic Amhlaoibh had a voice that was powerful, smooth and entirely enchanting. She could have been singing about anything and it would have been lovely. The fact that she was oftentimes singing traditional Christmas hymns simply added to the romanticism of the evening. Nic Amhlaoibh also played the flute throughout the night and even jumped on the whistle once or twice. Donal Clancy, on the guitar, had a tremendously rich voice as well.

Brendan (Benny) McCarthy played melodeon and button accordion, while Martin O’Neill, a self-proclaimed half-Irish, half-Scottish addition to the group, played the Bodhran, an Irish Drum, with superlative skill. O’Neill also hopped on and off the piano throughout the night.

Éamon Doorley sang backup vocals and played the Irish Bouzouki, cracking jokes along with the others. Liam Flanagan shined on the fiddle, and was a particularly noteworthy addition to Nic Amhlaoibh’s lead vocals in “Angels We Have Heard on High.” Flanagan clearly demonstrated his ability to use the fiddle to inspire an amazing range of emotion.

Image by: John D. Kelly

Danú’s repertoire included a few songs known by all, but also several more “instructional selections,” one might say.

How and when should one make a Christmas cake? Exactly how much liquor is fed to the marzipan encrusted cake? The morning after a pleasant and appropriate Christmas day in Ireland, when does the drinking begin?

The group’s responses and explanations were certainly both entertaining and educational. They introduced each and every piece, noting that they would play “several reels” and “a few reels;” they played so many reels, each of which made you feel unreasonable giddy and wanting for a beer to sip along with your toe-tapping.

As is the Irish way, pubs were mentioned on no less than two dozen occasions. Add to this the way English rolled rollickingly off their tongues and the fascinating licks of Irish we got to hear, and I’m searching for flights. Christmas in Ireland, I’m on my way!

The night flew by, even with a short intermission, and soon it was all ending.

After the first verse of “Silent Night,” which was beautifully sung in Gaelic by Nic Amhlaoibh, the crowd joined in for the English version.

The evening’s display of Christmas spirit and tradition was the perfect start to the month of December. Danú has released seven CDs as well as a DVD over the last decade and a half. Following Wednesday evening’s show, the group has just a few more U.S. performances before heading back to Ireland just in time for Christmas.

The next holiday event hosted by the Mondavi Center will be this Saturday, Dec. 8. Cantus Vocal Ensemble will perform, “All is Calm: The Christmas Truce of 1914.” For tickets and information for the Theater Latté Da performance, visit MondaviArts.org.

Originally published at http://www.sacramentopress.com/headline/76832/Dan_opens_the_holiday_season_for_the_Mondavi_Center on December 6, 2012.

Posted by: patriciamar | March 23, 2011

Blowing Wet Leaves

As I watch out the cafe window, sipping a large coffee, the rain trickles down the window pane.  My toes are cold, probably due to the open-toed shoes I decided to wear despite the rain.   Across the street, an older man attempts to clean the leaves, seeds, and small branches from the sidewalk in front of his home. 

He beats the nose of the leafblower on the ground, displaying his agitation and growing aggression against the pile of wet leaves that just won’t blow away.  

Some people just don’t know when to hang up the leafblower.  This attitude, on the whole, is why 70 percent of my life here in Sacramento is polluted by the rumbling noise of a leafblower.  

Just leave the leaves alone when they’re wet!  Or, if you just cannot handle that, then get a steel broom, because a leaf blower just isn’t going to cut it.

Plus, your leafblower isn’t going to last very long if you keep banging it on the ground like that.

Posted by: patriciamar | February 15, 2011

The Aberdeen of my Eye

Following several weeks of sunshine, clear skies, beach time, and even a bit of a tan, the rain has returned to Sacramento.  Fortunately, in just a few days, I am out of here for five days!  Unfortunately, I’m going to South Dakota, which isn’t exactly the apple of my eye in terms of climate.  I’m not even going to Sioux Falls, I’m going to a little city south- I mean North, on I29.  Who even knew there was anything up there? 

There’s North Dakota…

I just watched a National Parks video and they said that there were still 80,000 buffalo roaming the U.S., most of them in T.R.’s National Park in the western half of North Dakota.

What!? 

But anyway, back to Aberdeen, South Dakota, the home of the annual Wizard of Oz festival.  I don’t want to divulge any real secrets, but I just- might- know a little girl who played Dorothy for the Aberdeen Wizard of Oz festival in the early nineties. 

So, my upcoming trip to Aberdeen.  Aberdeen is like the Job of U.S. cities, I swear it.  No offense, Little- but I see the news. 

Flooding in Aberdeen

Blizzard producing 37 inches of snow hits Aberdeen

15 days straight of rain in Aberdeen, it floods

Suffocating heat stifles Aberdeen citizens

Aberdeen area crops dying from the suffocating heat

Weather so hot trees are spontaneously bursting into flames… in Aberdeen

A downpour of rain saves Aberdeen’s crops, but unfortunately, causes more flooding, lots more

It goes on and on!  Is there a good season in Aberdeen?  Ah, but yes there is.  There might actually be two.  They’re tiny and probably off the radar for some, but I am on to them.  The first is the Wizard of Oz festival.  Who doesn’t love a good flying monkey?

The second is going to be Little’s wedding.  That’s right, I will go out on a brittle and ice covered limb and say that it’s going to be a beautiful February weekend in Aberdeen, South Dakota.  I think it’s going to warm.  The sun is going to be shining and the wind won’t be blowing and the temp will be…

40.

That’s right, 40 degrees, not just 32, not even 35, but a nice, balmy, winter 40.

Here’s hoping.

Posted by: patriciamar | November 10, 2010

Finally a Break

Today, I arrived at my subbing job and the school looked very empty.  I checked in with the office and- hurray!- it’s a short day, Late Start Wednesday! 

My classes thus far have been good, nothing too crazy, but I’ve still come home everyday exhausted and with no voice.  It takes a while to toughen up that “loud” voice. 

A late start is obviously good news for the kids, good news for me, and good news for all the things that I need to get done!  Phew, finally a nice little break.  Matt has gotten to watch movies all day long and gotten numerous prep periods – finally, my turn.  It was actually quite lucky that today I dropped off Matt rather than the other way around.  So, I took the Merc (that’s what the Brits call them- I just found out) and headed to a place that is everyone in Sac’s “third place,” the Donut Shop.  Delicious donuts and fresh coffee for only $2.  Lovely.  Plus, I got to spend my morning writing for NaNoWriMo (well, plus this, and reading my buku [Indonesian = book], plus people watching, man people can eat donuts around here!)

p.s.  I have also learned that there are no “long johns” here, these are called “bars.”  One maple bar and one chocolate bar please…

Whatever.  One creme-filled chocolate longjohn please!

p.s.s.  The donut shop also sold snow cones.  For some reason I found this highly amusing.

Posted by: patriciamar | July 26, 2010

A new sleep spot, Buttercup, and hey-oh Chico

I wake to the click, click of a lighter and after a minute or two, I smell a waft of Jasmine incense that has crossed the room.  It is 7:40 and I just woke from my first nap in my new bedroom.  After 10 months in this apartment, we have given in  and decided to officially call the futon our bed.  It is now in the bed spot in the back of the apartment.  Yet another success, I have almost made it through my first day without coffee after a long, long string of days with a lot of coffee.  And- the summer school is over.

So many things have happened and such a turn of events that it is almost inconceivable.  (Ah, one of the things that happened was that I watched The Princess Bride – I recommend.).  So- inconceivable.  Matt and I are moving back to the Usa.  (You can pronounce it this way too, like a slavic woman’s first name, Usa.)    We have purchased our tickets, conveniently scheduling a stopover in Iceland for one day (!), we have decided upon a plan of attack for that thing that most people have… I think it’s called a job, and we have even narrowed it down to four cities where our next apartment will be located.  These are all cities where our next plans are most likely to successfully develop, which mainly means that they must be moderately sized, have schools (high schools, junior colleges, community colleges, and maybe even a state college) and for one reason or another they must seem fun.  Here goes:  Santa Rosa area, Chico, San Francisco or bay area, and Sacramento.  If you have any thoughts, be sure to let us know.  We are, of course, open to strong opinions.

Posted by: patriciamar | July 2, 2010

To know and not to know about NS Rail

 The Dutch Rail System, if you ask me, is phenomenal.  Fine, fine, get out your rage, sometimes it’s late, sometimes leaves fall on the tracks and they just don’t know quite what to do, and yes, the purple plush first class seats on the French TGV trains are so much better than any armchair in my own home.

But – overall, if you want to go somewhere for a reasonable price at basically any time of day, just be thankful you are in the Netherlands. 

If you are in the Randstad (~Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The Hague, Leiden, Dordrecht), you can basically go to the train station any time between 6:00 a.m. and 1:00 a.m. and get on a train in 10-15 minutes to your destination of choice.  Don’t even bother looking up the times.  If you are heading out the Randstad, then it could be every half hour, but it’s probably more frequent than that.  Note: if you are taking internation trains to Brussels, Paris, Dusseldorf, etc., make sure you check the time and what you need to do for a reservation.  The Thalys, especially, (the high speed train to Paris via Antwerp and Brussels), requires a reservation in the most annoying sense of the word.  Back to the Netherlands, the train system is smooth and basically effortless.  Get a discount card and you’re home free.  The discout card costs 50 euros (or used to) gives you 40% off all trains after 9:00 am and during holidays (which means weekends and almost the whole summer).  You can also pay an extra 15 euros and get NS Rail Plus which is an addition that
gives you 25% off all international rail tickets that either start or
end in the Netherlands.  You need a passport photo, which you can buy in the train station in one of those machines for 5 Euros.

Everyone who lives there buys this (unless their employer compensates them, which is also quite normal).  Their high speed rail site, which has more international journeys: http://www.nshispeed.nl/en can be used to search, although we have found that the German site tends to be better (www.bahn.de).  The French site isn’t bad either (www.tgv.fr).

If you are making some longer trips around Europe, I highly recommend checking out raileurope.com or eurail.com, and the possibility of a railpass.  They can be substantially cheaper.  If they try to make you make (and pay for) reservations for every trip, don’t do it!  You don’t have to and  you’ll just end up missing one and have to pay for it again.  Find out which ones you have  to make reservations for (night trains, Thalys, some high speed German trains, the Eurostar under the English Channel to Britain, etc.) and make reservations for those beforehand, when  you buy your railpass, as they are cheaper then and you don’t have to stand in line.

Regarding other rail systems, I personally have a quite livid anger towards the Belgian rail system.  It is based upon 5-10 trips to Brussels, Brugge, Ghent, Antwerpen, that were more or less the worst experiences of rail travel that I’ve experienced in my life.

And I’m from the U.S.

And I travelled in Romania.

We actually had one particular instance when we were attempting to get from Durbuy, a tiny town in the Wallonian part of Belgium, back to Leiden.  I admit, we did make the mistake of stopping in Brussels for beer and chocolate, but still, is there any reason we should have ended up stuck on the Netherlands/Belgium border? 

The train stopped, ended and didn’t cross the border.  After a 80 Euro taxi ride to Breda, life resumed- as did the train system, and we could get a train back to the Randstad. 

Okay, so it was slightly more complicated than that, but the main point is that you Can and Will get stuck on some train in Belgium that’s hot, stuffy, crowded, delayed, ending at an inopportune time, or some other BS that will probably make you loathe the Belgian train system as much as I do.

*On a kinder note, my friend Martha thinks that the Belgian rail system rocks.  She has some bizarre form of luck that I simply do not have.

Posted by: patriciamar | May 24, 2010

Properly Carsick

So I was on the second floor of a double-decker bus with seventy other students driving through the Alps, and they decided to put on a movie.

Great!  I thought.  I could use a nice movie to fall asleep, and sleep is always welcome at the end of a 20 hour bus ride south from the Netherlands.   There were a few students who were yelling requests or had brought movies along (The Notebook! I heard yelled from the back).  They quickly chose the worst possible movie to watch on a winding path up the mountains in the middle of the night, obviously wanting every student on the bus to become properly carsick by the time we reached the ski resort in Risoul.   “A Perfect Storm” appeared on the screen, and the nightmare began…

Has anyone actually seen this movie?  It’s horrible.  Plus, at the end, everyone dies!  Quite tragic really, but when I have to put in headphones and put a shirt over my head so I can escape the raging seas of an ocean  storm- while on a bus winding up a mountain path… I don’t really care whether George Clooney wants to prove himself or not.  I think he should have just kept his boat in the harbor and found a new career.

If you are ever in charge of movies on a bus, next time, please consider the route the bus will be taking and keep in mind that the whole point of movie is to distract the passengers, not to blast their senses with noise, chaos, and movement- followed by tragic death.

Maybe The Notebook would have been better after all.

Posted by: patriciamar | May 23, 2010

Summerly Fun

Summer has finally arrived in Leiden!  I may have said this before, but I was wrong, it was only trickery then, and now, it’s full sunshine and over 70 degrees for more than two days!  (Sigh.)

Yesterday, I headed to the market with the idea that it would be a nice quick trip, stopping at the grocery store on the way home.   Fortunately, the sun, the people, and the cruising boats took me captive and I instead chose to wander among the crowds for an hour, eating a Super Stroop (the big stroopwafels you can get fresh at the market for one Euro) and bought flowers and fresh bread and asparagus (it’s the season) and rhubarb and strawberries… Enough wonderful things that soon my bags were too full and I would definitely have to stop home before going to the supermarket.

The crowds of people at the market were amazing, not the usual rush to be the first in the cheese line, but a wandering and almost sedated form of happiness that can only be induced by wandering with a melting ice cream cone or sitting on the canal drinking wine or cappuccino and watching the dozens of boats drift by.  Some boats were tied up to the edge of the canal next to the cafe, an old man still there, shirt off and working on the start of what- by the end of the summer- will be a large, dark brown belly.  There were wine glasses next to him, half full of a nice summer Riesling from a few hundred kilometers away across the German border and his wife was missing, probably picking up broodjes (sandwiches) or haring or some old Gouda. 

As I walked down the stretch past the fish men, regretting my decision to buy a bouquet of roses first thing (they were so nice!  20 for only 3.50!), I passed a cellist and an acoustic guitarist, and later, a violin-playing puppet.  On market days like this, it’s all so much like a dream, living here in lovely Leiden.  I wonder, if I leave, if I will remember that I actually did it, or if I will forget that this is how life can be.

This morning, I am just sitting outside my house in a brightly striped green and blue sundress, drinking green tea (which I didn’t think I liked until just now) and hearing the church bells ring in the distance.  My street is completely peaceful, even the cats are having a lie-in (that’s how the British say sleeping in, did you know that!?  Love it.) 

Best of all… in two hours I am picking up my friend Melissa from the airport.

(!!!)

Posted by: patriciamar | May 14, 2010

Strolling in Rhythm & Verse

Published in the April 2010 issue of the ISN-R Leiden Vox Discipulorum

Strolling in Rhythm & Verse
by Patricia Willers

While most cities are constantly bustling with people and activity, the city of Leiden seems to preserve a special peacefulness that allows its citizens: families, students, and businessmen alike, to slow down and stroll through the city streets. Although this may irritate some when they are searching for an open grocery store to buy their Sunday evening dinner, in the end, the point is to understand and embrace it. The next time you need a way to slow down and see the world that is quickly passing you by, take a walk through Leiden using the dozens of poems, verses, and sonnets painted on the walls of the houses of Leiden.

To tour the whole Leiden area, follow the poems for the full route, which will take between two and three hours. The café, De Stadhouder, located at Nieuwe Rijn 13, serves as an excellent starting place. Inside, you will find a list of the poems as well as a map of the locations of the poems.

If you are only looking to do a bit of exploring, visit just a few poems and spend some extra time considering the row houses, canals, and unique architecture, and what it may have been like in earlier years. The poems are sometimes chosen by the homeowners and community surrounding them, so at times, they really seem to give you a glimpse of Dutch life. With some in particular, such as that on the Villa Cecelia, it is easy to imagine a few possibilities.

The many poems of Leiden were painted on the walls through a project called “Poems and Walls,” which started in 1992 and was completed in 2005. The program was started by an initiative of the private foundation, ‘Tegen-Beeld,’ started by Ben Walenkamp and Jan-Willem Bruins. The idea behind the poems was to unite language and images. The verses are written in a variety of languages, although many times with Dutch and English translations.

Leiden is the perfect setting for this unique form of art because of the town’s rich history of authors, artists, and both Dutch and international scholars. The “Poems and Walls” program maintains a website which can be found at http://www.muurgedichten.nl/wallpoems.html. Through this website, it is possible to find a map of the poetry walk, a virtual tour of the numerous wall paintings, and a more detailed description of the “Poems and Walls” project. It is also noted on the website that a follow-up to the initial project may take place in 2010. A book, entitled “Dicht op de muur,” by Marleen van der Weij, is also available. Both the book and a majority of the website are written in Dutch, but the map and general description are more than enough to lead you on an excellent poetry walk. If you are interested in a guided tour, the Leiden VVV can sometimes help to arrange tours.

 As the city blooms into spring and you hurry on with your lives, make a little time for a poetry walk in Leiden, whether you read all 101 poems or only make it to the first café, it may remind you that you are living someplace new, and to make time to stop, look around, and enjoy it.

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